Relationship Status:The Reality Of Intimacy



When a bud breaks, it becomes a flower. When a heart breaks, it becomes divine. A flower cannot break. What you thought was love, was not love. A broken heart means broken demands, broken expectations, broken hopes. In true love, there is no heartbreak.Can water break? Water is fluid. Love is fluid.Whatever is fluid is not brittle.Something that is stiff can be broken.Life is full of events, some pleasant, some unpleasant, some good, some not good.Many times you were doing something and, unintentionally , people got hurt. The same thing is true with other people also who have hurt you. And so you feel heartbroken or they feel heartbroken.This is not the nature of mature mind or of a mature love.


           So, when you meet the friend again, or ex-partner again, talk to them as though nothing has happened in the past, as though this is the first time you are meeting them.You don't need to give any explanation.Okay,you were partners for sometime, then something happened whether you wanted it or not.You moved apart.Again you reach out to them, talk to them.Be friendly from your side as though nothing has happened.Live as though you have no enemies.



          Don't see people as definite personalities.All personalities change.A good person, due to your own karma or vibration, can say something wrong to you if you have to be hurt.If you have good karma, even the wrong person will start helping you and be kind to you.So, true intimacy is to see that no other person exists.When the mind recognizes this openness, the mind dissolves, disappears.

           This is all me, a part of me.Then one clears that heavy load on the heart and the mind from inside.Then more love flows in and out.That love becomes divine, like a big, beautifully blossomed flower.
There is no difference, everything is you, everything is a part of you.That is true intimacy. :)


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Ruhie

18 comments:

  1. Thanks so much for leaving such a sweet comment on my blog! Following your gorgeous blog back, of course :) xoxo, Veena

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  2. Lovely post ruhie. Really love it.

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  3. Thank you so much for your sweet comment!! Of course we can follow, I start, wait for you to follow back!If you wan we can follow also with bloglovin, google+ and facebook?

    Come back soon to visit my blog, I'll be waiting for you!!
    Cosa mi metto???

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  4. Nice advice. :) I follow you back :D
    Greets,
    Joanna from www.violinstyle.blogspot.com

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  5. Truth.And i'd love to! will be waiting for your follow

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  6. How beautiful, we all need a sole mate. Loneliness is a killer so we all need to reach out

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  7. Great post. I am friends with many of my exes. I am not one to burn bridges if I can help it.

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  8. Such a great post, you're telling the truth!
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  9. I SOOO agree with you that if you just meet your ex-partner you should just be normal and not act like they r your enemies! They were a part of your life, right!

    I am going to show this post to one of my friends, she will really benefit from it at this point! And I am going to bookmark this post to read it later myself too!!! hehe


    Thank you for this post! :)

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  10. i quote you word by word, very intense post!
    Come to visit my blog and if you like let's follow each other on bloglovin and GFC!
    xx
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  11. Hi lovely,
    great post!
    I just found your blog...it's so cute!!
    Would you like to follow each other on bloglovin and GFC?
    Have a great day:)
    Xoxo
    Mary
    Fashion tea at 5

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  12. Thank you so much for your sweet comment!! Of course I follow you back!
    If you wan we can follow also with bloglovin, google+, twitter and facebook?

    Win an amazing dress of your choice up to £200, enter the Zeleb giveaway
    Come back soon to visit my blog, I'll be waiting for you!!
    Cosa mi metto???

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  13. @ Veena, Vertu, Anusha, Fabrizia, Joanna, Emily, Kassi, Fabrizia , Francesca, Mary.... Thnq so much gals :)
    Glad you liked the post...Thnq for your lovely comments ^_^

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  14. @ Kristen ..Thnx... Glad u liked the post :)

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  15. I am following back through GFC and bloglovin!

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  16. Hi lovely,
    thank you for stopping by!
    I'm following back on bloglovin and GFC:)
    Have a great weekend
    Xoxo
    Mary

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  17. Beautiful thoughts.
    Loved ur blog
    thanks for following me

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