Letters to Love: Ego or Let Go?

Would you choose to keep your ego or let it go?

So the other day, I was watching a movie with three female protagonists. All three with completely different temperaments. The first one was the "innocent" type, the second was the "practical yet very flexible" kind and lastly the third was "stubborn, fierce and independent" type. As the story progressed, all three were subjected to similar situations and all three dealt with them in their own ways.