It's Exam Time!!!Again!!

It's exam time gain and I won't be able to blog any more  : (
 There is so much to revise and so many classes to attend.I'll miss blogging so much.

The Soul Eaters



One should always stay away from the vampires. No I’m not talking about the sexy hunks from eclipse. I’m talking about the myriad of people who surround us every day.



Now there is a difference, unlike the vampires you saw in movies. These people don’t suck your blood, instead they feed on your goodness, your happiness until you have none.


They make you from happy people to sad, aimless s*%t


Ever forgiven someone for their awful mistake, had them back in your life after their apologizing and then suddenly saw yourself losing away!!!
Now these people tend to be very clever they even act like they are innocent as angels. Now don’t go around thinking this is someone pessimistic s!*t that you shouldn’t be reading. This is real stuff, if you haven’t faced it, be prepared for what you could face!!!

And if you already have had a taste of it, congratulate yourself  cause you are not alone, THOUGH that’s how it feels!!!

So you have forgiven them and they are back into your life, everything is just picture perfect!! You thank God for giving you the patience and good – will that helped you forgive them. You really feel good, especially they make you feel like you are the best person ever!!You are more than a human being!! You are an angel , a saint. They give you all their time, love, affection.

And even when it wasn’t required, you find yourself drawn to them , believing all the things they say, because they are right!! You are a good person, a smiling, charming and lovely person!
Something  happens!! They tell you how bad they are! That you are the only reason for them to smile and survive.They want all access to your faith, your belief, they want you to believe them blindly, they won’t tell anything about themselves, but they everything that is yours!!

Your smile, your tears!! And you can’t help falling for such kind of attention because deep down everybody craves for love and attention! That’s all you do!! Be yourself! Behave like a normal human being!

But that’s where you fall!! The moment  you lose control of your feelings, the moment you let down your guard is the moment they conquer you!! 
From this moment onwards it’s a lost battle. Ever heard of a human being in a quick sand trap!! Ever felt like being in a trap of that sort!! These vampires drag you just there!!

Once you set foot on it, there’s no escaping. 



Picture this: You felt like losing yourself somewhere? Or people telling you , that you have changed? You try to find the reason, your heart knows the truth, even warns you, but your mind doesn’t heed, because your mind understands only facts!!

And the fact is there is NO proof, to the harm they do to you!

You can only sense it, and it’s not only you. But everyone who loves you senses it. Maybe they warn you, maybe they don’t, they might be listening to their heads!!

Result: You don’t do anything that you actually should have been doing!! Meanwhile they are feeding on your happiness , on your soul , while feeding your ego and your need for Love!!
You might stop to think that maybe losing oneself in the process of being loved is the way it is! The way it should be!!But be warned My dear friend. 

“Losing your soul is much worse than taking a million jabs. Because the human body is just a mirage, what is true is the soul, the energy that you carry within, you got to treasure it with your life, even if it means dying”


Why else do you think Joan of Arc chose to die?
But even to those to whom my thoughts seem crazy and delusional. Continue reading, you will figure out what I wish to convey.

Picture this:
Just when you came in terms to fact that your heart is playing games with you and that whatever you feel is stupid and delusional. That people close to you who warn you that something is wrong are just jealous of what you have!! A constant reassurance from “someone”.

You start losing yourself that moment! You have entered the quick sand and after initial attempts to escape you have decided to let go of yourself in peace, only because you have what you think a “LOVE “ of your life!!

But right at that moment, my dear friend you will notice that the warmth is fading!

And you will hear them say: “ I’m not good enough for you. This was never meant to work! ”, “ I’m feeling so guilty, I think I will have to go, away from you, forever!” 

Can you or Can you not picture yourself, I don’t know.
But Those who can, or those who have! They know the pain. Actually there is no pain because to feel the pain they just inflicted on you, you need to have a soul! Unfortunately, you realize it quite late that you have already lost it!

And you don’t feel any pain, but still it hurts you, and it hurts you more severe because  the warmth that supported you inside earlier, your energy of love has been sucked off from you, right out of you. You are left with nothing. And all you search for is them, you search for the very same vampires, who made a sh!* out of you.

Unfortunate if you don’t find them ever again, but worse if you manage to get them back in your life, because now they are your masters. They control you! They control your every move, you are nothing more than their slaves and for eternity you will do what they wish you to do!!!
If you still not clear on what the sh!* ,  you have been reading about, Go get yourself a DVD of “TRUST”. I’m sure you will understand exactly what I want to say!

And, please, NO!! I’m not only talking about online predators, or sexual predators. You get such people everywhere, usually they tend to exploit through feelings of love, because that is the weakest link to any living being. I’m sure you have heard


“ The chain is as strong as the strongest link”

They might act as angels, not do any of the sick sh!* that happened to the l’il girl in TRUST. But I want you to retrospect the feelings the Girl goes through!! Because that is exactly how you feel when such vampires attack.
Some Tips from me to all those who haven’t experienced any such person. There are certain traits of these people that could help you to recognize them and thus deal with them effectively and save yourself!!

  • ·       They are pessimistic to the core.

  • ·       They always talk about all the bad things in their lives, but they always tend to praise you for everything you have.

  • ·       Praises : That is the one weapon they use to hunt you down!! 
  • We have always been taught that we should be thankful
to people who praise us, we always see it in a good light, but that’s not always the case. WAKE UP!!! These vampires use this mentality to get you to trust them. So please next time you find someone no matter how attractive, no matter how close, praising you for even very small things, things normal people don’t usually notice. Things your parents or friends don’t notice, Beware that is a BIG signal that they are trying to hack into your system.

  • ·       Listen to your HEART!!! We have heard this a million, a zillion times, but still we tend to ignore it. If you have two feelings about a certain person, steer clear. You will be thankful, I guarantee you!!! Tell your mind to shut up if all it is doing is processing the praises and the attention bestowed upon you.


  • ·       Do Not share your life with them. Do not tell them about your life’s happiness and sorrows, that is like giving a key to your life. Be Reclusive. Do not trust blindly.


There is a very famous quote:


“You come in this world knowing nobody, but still you need somebody to TRUST!!!”
               
·       When you act reclusive, they will try even further to get to you!! You can observe the trends. More praises, more gloominess on their side, they will try to make you feel like a hero, you’ll wish to save them when actually it’s just part of their plan.

  • ·       Helping someone is a good thing, but NEVER take it on yourself to get someone out of a mess.

·    Even if you save yourself from all their sh!*, be careful because the last thing such people resort to when none of their tricks seem to be working is “EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL”. And that is because it’s the most powerful weapon.

TThey WILL say things like: “ I’m going to commit suicide”, “ I don’t have any friends or any one to love” etc etc. Many such Sh!**y lines, because they know that you have a goodness hidden inside of you. In such cases, DO NOT BE AFRAID OF RINGING THE SIREN.

o  Inform your Parents
o  Inform your teacher
o  Inform your friends also, so they know what kind of a person he/ she is!!
o  Don’t be afraid to inform the POLICE, If required. Afterall it  is a crime to commit suicide or emotionally blackmail someone.

“The basic rule is that: Don’t be afraid to save your f*&^%$@!g ass.”

NEVER THINK THAT HELPING THEM EMOTIONALLY OR PROVIDING THEM TEMPORARY RELIEF BY LENDING IN TO THEIR DEMAND WILL EVER BE OF ANY USE!!!

BECAUSE IT NEVER DOES !!!

Ok, it doesn’t end here. Even if you saved yourself, they will try to contact you. They will try to make you feel guilty.” You are not a good friend, you are not even a human being.”, “ How could you do this to me?? I wasn’t really going to commit suicide or hurt you” . Their basic aim: Make you go on a guilt trip.

“ Do Not Lend In, NEVER”

Make them realize that what you did was just a silhouette to what you can do if they ever again try to sh!* with your life.

“Nobody takes a danger that is not worth the outcome they would get out of it!!”

When they realize this, rest assured they will make a last parting remark that could hurt you if you keep yourself open. At this stage, don’t even listen to what they have to say, because that would only be sh!*!!!
And they will leave, to never return ever to your life. You can be happy and lovely as before.
They might be busy looking for their next prey, because that is their latent tendency, something that keeps them alive. We can’t do anything to change it.
All we can do is be aware of such people and circumstances and make sure that our loved ones are safe. Share what you know with your friends and people you love, because their next prey could be them as well!!
Love 


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Change your Karma!!!

All human beings are subject to karmic law, but we don't have to be imprisoned by it. Many people think of themselves as victims of bad karma, powerless to change it. Not true. No matter what kind of karma you've brought to this lifetime, you can change it. The literal meaning of karma -- "action" -- implies the potential for change.


So how do we change our karma? Lots of ways. Here are just a few:
  1. Read your Daily Horoscope. Horoscopes offer terrific clues for creating good karma every day. They highlight potential obstacles you'll face during the day, and give you wise advice on the best way to cope with them.

  2. Do a good deed. This is the easiest way to reverse your karma. If you put positive energy out there, you'll receive that same positive energy back. So help that elderly woman cross the street, drop some change in the charity box, buy a homeless person a cheeseburger ... give and you will receive.

  3. Listen to the universe. Are you someone who habitually gets stuck in traffic or long lines? Instead of tapping your foot and honking your horn, think about what the cosmos may be trying to tell you. (Hint: patience.) The lessons you need to learn are out there -- you just need to know how to hear the messages.

  4. Do a Tarot or I-Ching reading. These readings are a great way to take the karmic pulse of a day. Like an "early warning system," daily I-Ching readings are an excellent tool for helping you see which actions and attitudes will pave you a smoother path. There are even special Karma Tarot readings (Karmic Situation and Karmic Lesson) that will help you connect with your karma.


  5. Change your routine. If you go to the same places every day, see the same people and do the same things, and you notice you're having "bad luck," mix it up. The universe may be trying to tell you that there's either something you should stop, or that there's something else out there that you should start.

  6. Learn about your past lives. Finding out what choices you made in your past life or lives can give you insight into the patterns you see in this one. Once you figure out what lessons you still need to learn, you can change your behavior accordingly.

  7. Practice Feng Shui. The ancient art of placement and karma have a symbiotic relationship. Good karma leads to better energy, and Feng Shui releases negativity in your spaces, opening up space for positive energy to flow through your home, and also within yourself, helping your karma to improve. Learn how to put the ancient Chinese art of Feng Shui to work in you life.

  8. Learn how to forgive. Practicing forgiveness is a double whammy on the karma front. You don't just create good karma from yourself -- you also help to release the other person from negative karma.
When you understand what your karmic energies are -- what experiences or people you are attracting into your life in order to receive the lessons they offer -- you are ready to change your karma. Your thoughts and emotions, no matter how aware or unaware of them you are, affect others and are mirrored in your world. All thoughts are energy and every thought sends a vibration that affects everything in the environment, from your own physical body to every aspect of the external world ... all the people, animals, plants and the cosmos itself.

Shelf Life Of Cosmetics


The first rule to remember is OLD IS NOT GOLD. Make up has a shelf life. It gets contaminated easily.

          If you leave anything unused for months, it gets discolored or spoiled. If make up is used on moist skin, then closed up again, bacteria could breed in it. The next time you use it, the germs are transferred to your face.

    

Love @ First sight: Inertia Of Love!! ( IOL )

I miss him like anything!!!!S@!T!!!!!!!
Hmmphh
Before you know it, you are already missing a greater part of yourself and your life through him!
Now this is not a one-person's-story. It happens wtih everyone, thousands of young hearts, never knowing what real love is, fall for something that changes their perspective towards what is real - The True Love!!

I'm not here to tell you what it is, for the very simple reason that I'm not eligible to do so! Honestly I do think that Love is Universal. It can range from what you feel for your cuddly teddy bear to what a patriot would feel for his/her country! As much as it could be a person from your family, someone special, we also love our favourite blanky, don't we??



 A sense of connection that binds us. Would you be afraid to lose that thread of warmth ? Because afterall love is all about the warmth we receive from some people in this otherwise cold world.


You might remember how you could genuinely smile when with him and the same old warmth could turn into your biggest fear, a setback to your achieving what otherwise you could achieve! Let me be more decipherable : You had an amazing relation with someone, he/ she was a huge part of your life, they helped change your life into something better! But unfortunately, something went wrong could be a break up , could be losing someone forever, the pain is almost the same. There is a very famous saying:
"Once in Love, you can never be the same again. It changes the very core of your soul."
So what happens when you face such a huge loss ( only a person who has actually been through can tell about the pain we're talking about) . The question is:

Can you ever fall in love again?
Is it ever the same?
Haven't you ever felt that absolutely no one could keep you that happy?
That you would give the world to be back in those times?



The thing is we as human beings hate changes. We often experience what may be called the Inertia Of Love. The relation is over, everyone seems to have moved on! But somehow you are in a totally different world, we tend to distance ourself from everyone, our friends, colleagues, even our parents and siblings. Why is it that we tend to remain in that state of Love, even after everything has finished!! Even when we know that what happened was bound to happen, that we could do nothing to change it, and even worse there is nothing is future we could do to change it!!!

Honestly speaking Inertia of Love s*^&k# , and we know it does!!!! But we tend to stick to it!!
Is it because of Hope? Can "Hope" turn to be our enemy, that's what it appears.


We HOPE they will be back.
We HOPE of being in the same state of love, happiness and belonging-ness we experienced with them.

"I'm not begging you to love me.
I'm not really even asking you.
But, Isn't it alright
If I cherish that hope in my heart?
If I just dream of holding your hand.
It will hurt me- not you.
I will try to keep my eyes from shining
When they see you,
And I promise
I will try not to smile a special smile
When you say hello,
but, please Don't ask me
Not to love you... "
We relive each moment we spent with them in our hearts, our soul, in our head. When listening to a song, when going to an old hangout, we can feel the warmth of those moments rush through our veins and we realize we can't love anyone else.

But this is where it takes an ugly face :
"We can't love anymore!!!"
Have you ever heard yourself saying that to someone or even yourself??
I can't love anyone anymore, I've had enough of love!!!


I'm sure all of you who have read or watched the following will get a clearer picture of what "IOL" is all about.

Movies:
  • P.S I Love You
  • My Sassy Girl <>
Books:

  • Christmas Eve at Friday Harbor
  • The Witch Of Portobello
Can you remember any such movies or novels that represent IOL?

P.S.: I know it's hard to smile after reading such a heavy blog :P
but still
Keep Smiling
Coz A Smile Is Allll You Need  ^_^





XoXo,
Keiko


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Motivated to Love!:The beautiful Story ^_^

High in the mountains was a monastery that had once been known throughout the world. Its monks were pious, its students were enthusiastic. The chants from the monastery's chapel deeply touched the hearts of people who came there to pray and meditate.
    

                  But, something had changed. Fewer and fewer young men came to study there; fewer and fewer people came for spiritual nourishment. The monks who remained became sad and disheartened.

                  Deeply worried, the abbot of the monastery went off in search of an answer. Why had this monastery fallen on such hard times?

                  The abbot came to a guru, and he asked the master, "Is it beacuse of some sin of ours that the monastery is no longer full of vitality?"

                  "Yes," replied the master, "it is the sin of ignorance."
                  "The sin of ignorance?" questioned the abbot. "Of what are we ignorant?"
       
                 The guru looked at the abbot for a long, long time, and then he said, “One of you is the messiah in disguise. But ,you are all ignorant of this.”Then, the guru closed his eyes, and he was silent.
                “The messiah?” thought the abbot. “The messiah is one of us? Who could it be? Could it be Brother Cook?  Could it be Brother Treasurer? Could it be Brother Bell-Ringer? Could it be Brother Vegetable Grower?
                “Which one? Which one?  Every one of us has faults, failings, human defects. Isn’t the messiah supposed to be perfect? But, then, perhaps these faults and failings are part of his disguise. Which one? Which one? “
                When the abbot returned to the monastery, he gathered all the monks together and told them what the guru had said.
                “One of us? The messiah? Impossible!”
                But the master had spoken, and the master was never wrong.
                “One of us? The messiah ? Incredible! But, it must be so. Which one?  Which one? That brother over there? That one? That one?
                Whichever one of the monks was the messiah, he was, surely, in disguise.
                Not knowing who amongst them was the messiah, all the monks began treating each other with new respect. “ You never know,” they thought, “he might be the one, so I had better deal with him kindly.”
                It was not long before the monastery was filled with new found joy. Soon, new students came to learn, and people came from far and wide to be inspired by  the chants of the kind, smiling monks.
                For once again, the monastery was filled with the spirit of love.
  Author Unknown
But Greatly Appreciated!

The Voice of Reason : Need Of Exams!!

EXAMZ!!!!EXAMZ!!!!EXAMZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! How I hate exams and tests.... :P

How to Sleep Well!!

Sleeping well is essential to good health. Still many people struggle to sleep atleast 8 hours a night. Here are some tips to get the best sleep possible.




Steps
Find the problem. If you are not sleeping well, there could be many reasons for it, such as stress, certain illnesses, or maybe something you heard or saw which traumatized you. Maybe, its just something minor bothering you. The best advice is to recognize and deal with the issues. Do this and sleep should return to its normal pattern.

Make sure your bedroom is comfortable. The less clutter, the better. A clean environment should aid more restful sleep. Also, avoid bright colours in a bedroom, and make patterns simple if using paint effects.

Watch what you put in your body. Do not eat red meats and heavy foods after 6 p.m. Switch to decaf coffee, because caffeine can keep you awake even if you drank it earlier in the day. Try to smoke less, particularly before bedtime.

Have your evening bath just before retiring for the night. Add something like lavender oil or any relaxing aromatherapy oil, to the bath.


Meditate (or pray, if that's your preference) before going to bed. This should help clear your thoughts and mind , and calm and soothe your soul. Play peaceful music if you think it might help.


Get comfortable in your bed, and don't think too hard. Once you are calm and relaxed, all that's left is to drift away and enjoy a soothing night of sleep.
Love

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How to Look Younger ^_^

Do you want to look younger and healthy? Well, you have come to the right place! That healthy glow begins with proper nutrition from the inside out. Saunas are a good investment in your appearance if you want to look younger longer!



Love @ First sight: Story of a DiSgRuNtLeD Heart!!!



Maybe you are there
Maybe you are not!!
People pretend to care
But they don’t share a thought.
Love is all around, love is underneath
But to most eyes  it's never seen.

Love @ First sight: The Scientific Story!!

                           

         The latest study was conducted on 115 male students, gathered in one single location and confronted with beautiful young actresses and models.

Love @ First sight: Story Of a Guy!!



Love At First Sight!!

Ever feel like…….

“Even if U don’t say anything, I choose U as my love”…..
“I lay down on the edge, I feel my whole life on rewind