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Happy New Year

12/31/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments


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Helpful Tips for Hair fall Control

12/30/2011 Ruhie Kumar 7 Comments

Hey Honey bunches :) Loads of Love!!!
It's my after exam post. It was a rough patch for me, with nothing going right for many days :( but today the sun seems to be shining on me!! and I'm loving it!!! :D

So here are some amazing tips to stop the early hair fall problem.


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Merry Christmas :)

12/24/2011 Ruhie Kumar 4 Comments



Hey my lovely honey dukes..
Wish you such a beautiful Christmas :)

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Corallista and Healthkart.com Rs 3000 Lord & Berry Giveaway!!

12/21/2011 Ruhie Kumar 2 Comments



Here’s a little Christmaas treat for all of you! Announcing Corallista and Healthkart.com Giveaway where you can win Rs 3000 worth of Lord and Berry products!

Ends 23rd Dec

Click Here to Enter

HealthKart Site

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Winter Skin Care Tips

12/20/2011 Ruhie Kumar 8 Comments

Hello my Lovely Honey dukes :* :)
Winter's all set!! and so are the skin woes!! Your otherwise amazing skin can lose its moisture and become dry and dull. Don't worry, a little pampering could set all worries straight and your skin will be as amazing as ever.




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Beauty: Get rid of Puffy Eyes

12/19/2011 Ruhie Kumar 9 Comments

I cried so much and my eyes are swollen. What can I do to Improve my eyes and look like nothing happened?


Did this happen to you ever. It has happened to me a lot!!!!
 Official - I'm a Cry Baby!!!! Yes!!I've admitted to it.I'm a cry baby.Sounds pathetic.It's nothing compared to the condition of my eyes once I'm done with it  :P

Anyways did you know :
  1. Tears help lubricate the eyes.
  2. Tears also help kill bacteria.
  3. Crying lowers stress levels and elevates your mood.
  4. Tears help release pent up feelings.
  5. You still want more!!!Go cry already :D
Hehehe...OK My peeps honestly don't take it from me !! I cried even when I had my job interview. :P But please don't try such stunts without adult supervision. It could affect you adversely. :P Did it affect me badly???!! Honey I'm KrazzyKi. I've the license to kill and cry :D

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12/17/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments


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200 fans giveaway

12/15/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

 Mystical glam is holding a giveaway.Make sure you do participate :)



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New New!!!!

12/14/2011 Ruhie Kumar 1 Comments



Hey all my lovelies out there!!!
How ya doin... :)  :)
As you might have noticed.I have brought about some major changes to the blog.Everything's new :) Do leave a comment to tell me if you like the changes .
The Look, The Feel and there are also some new additions :)
I'm inviting posts. So all you lovely people out there, if you wish to do a guest post for my blog just Drop Me A Line.
and I will get back to you as soon as I can.

Spread the Love
Keep Smiling
xoxo
KrazzyKi


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Rabiosa!!! Shakira Look

12/13/2011 Ruhie Kumar 2 Comments

"Rabiosa"

All the mami's and papi's .Check out this amazing video by Shakira and ft. Pitbull. Totally love this song  :) and Shakira is looking beyond gorgeous in her brunette avatar. Did I tell you guys..I totally love Shakira.She is freaking amazing. Her hits like "Whenever Wherever" , "La Tortura" and on n on..I mean there are just so many of my Shakira fav songs :) I could do a separate post for that  :P But today let's concentrate on her Rabiosa look




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Athirapilly Waterfalls

12/04/2011 Ruhie Kumar 4 Comments



It's exam times !!!!!!!!!!!!! I should be studying!!!!!!!!!! But it's been so long that I haven't posted, I'm tryin to be strong but the strength I have is washing away... :P :P :P yeah well that's my not-so-funny-bone YOL (yelling out loudly) Ok jokes apart, peeps...M sharing with you some really amazing pictures from my trip to Kerala. It's not the complete trip, that would be tooooo many picssss :P It's a part of my trip.My visit to Athirappilly Waterfalls !!! It's one of the most amazing places on the face of this Earth. It was rainy season, the weather was amazing, it was so beautiful and so romantic *dreamy eyes* hahahha :P

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Photo Booth: My New Lippie, My new Haircut and a Krazzy Photoshoot

11/25/2011 Ruhie Kumar 1 Comments

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Photo Booth: My Sexy Boots n Me :)

11/12/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

Hey My Lovelies !!!!
I'm doing my first FOTD  :D yay!!! I bought these really amazing boots,  they are so comfortable and droolingly sexy!!! :P
hehehhe...njoy the pics...Do Comment !!! :* :)

Super Cute, Super Comfy :)

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11-11-11 Magic !!! and the Party :)

11/11/2011 Ruhie Kumar 1 Comments

So what's special about 11, November, 2011.
Apart from the fact that such a date comes only in a hundred years and many other stuff too :P Click Here to find More

There is one thing that makes the day so much more special to me :) It's my mom- dad's marriage anniversary ..yay!!! Celebrating 27 years of love and togetherness, I pray for their good health and well being and long life.Love 'em so much. So we had a party at our place, it was fun!!! Here are some pici's

Yumm!!!

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Poetic Expressions

Poetic Expressions: Piece of Mind

11/06/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

Some pain you can't share with others
Some are just yours to claim!!
It's like a distant world
with you as the only soul
residing trying to fit the mould
There are so many smiles I love to remember but hopelessly  forget
Then there is some crazy sad stuff that nudges as I try to forget them hopelessly
I'm not perfect
I'm just trying to live
and let you live
Guess the space I give you will be enough to separate the hatred
yet somehow I hope it would also bring us closer to love
I want you to smile today to warm my insides and melt my heart
Coz sometimes even the thought that you smile and you are breathing is enough.

Ruhie

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Poetic Expressions: Nothing To Give To You

11/06/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

I got nothing to give
except the love
the laughter, lil joy
yet I feel I got nothing to give to you
I'd give my heart and my soul and the living life out of me
but yet I feel I got nothing to give to u.
I'd give you my smile , my care, to see you smile I'd give my all
but yet I feel I got nothing to give to u.
I could buy you gifts, maybe a heart or a chocolate
whatever you liked better
and take you far away to a place your heart could sing with joy
but yet I feel I got nothing to give to u.
And maybe if you could take me for who I am, someone who got nothing to give to you, we could have maybe everything .


Dedicated to the First Friend of my Life: I don't know where I lost you..You are not someone who should be a memory while you are still alive.. After all the hurt you gave to me, I don't really know who you are anymore, but if you do remember me, I'm here for you, was there, will always be..

Keep Smiling
Ruhie

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Happy Diwali :)

10/23/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

To all my lovely followers and friends and supporters and all amazing bloggers out there I'm yet to meet  :)
I wish you all a very Happy Diwali. To know all about  Diwali Click Here

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Fight Of Love-Turning up Wiser

10/19/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

Fighting with a fate, so set on making things so boring !!!
At exactly the same time of the year last year, I had a lot of interesting and beautiful things buzzing my life to the extreme, but this year round its so dull, that I could drop dead.

I'm reading this book, that is insanely stupid :P I don't get it, why do people think that writing the same thing over and over again will make the readers satisfied. Acknowledging the fact that even I am a writer with many readers :P but yet I'm not talking about a certain individual rather I'm talking about a complete genre.In this respect I find Mr. Paulo Coelho's book most inspiring and definitely out of the league. They are so refreshingly sane. :D

I wish to complain so much , but eventually I realize that after 5 mins of introspecting ( fast enough aye ;) )
that it ain't gonna help. It never did. Yeah I realize that Even when I was in same part of the year last year, I was complaining about something. I was reminiscing about the year before and complaining how last year didn't have something that last to last year had!! And that's exactly when I realize that I'm going around in f@##$%% ed up circles!!!SH!%!!

A FULL STOP is what is needed!!!

Because eventually you do realize that every moment gives you something very special. So how do you make the most of every moment!!?? I'm confused, how do you actually enjoy each moment?? Well I guess, I'll figure it out someday!!

I so wish to make a cover of Nobody's Perfect- Jessie J, yeah she is officially my  fav  for her fearless, ruthless music :) Let's see when I come up with that!! The technical glitches are always a pain :P

That was all for my daily ramblings :P Thanks for bearing with me :)
Loads of Love
xoxo

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"Change The View" Theory

10/10/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments


Goodmorning Lovelies,

How ya doing??  I hope that everything is fine at your side. :) 

Ok let’s blabber about the most important ingredient for a successful life “ Confidence”. So we have all seen and heard of confident people and their success stories. Especially students preparing for their campus interviews know it better, as most of the time you will hear your mentors, seniors, parents, friends almost everyone blurting out the importance of “CONFIDENCE”. 

TRUST IN ONE’S ABILITY- that is how the dictionary meaning of confidence goes.

No matter how many failures knock you down have the courage  to stand up on your feet, that is confidence. 

So how do you become confident?? A question asked by many. Personally I love giving seminars, and I give good ones too, please don’t think that this is some article on self praisal, just keep on reading, I hope you will get my point. I have been praised by almost everyone who has heard me give a seminar. But this didn’t come naturally to me. Everytime someone congratulates me for my performance, I remember the day I gave my first speech at my school. 

I believe I was in my 9th standard at that time. There was this English speech competition and I prepared for it quite hard. But I was always very nervous and I don’t even know why my teacher selected me :P only one student had to be selected from each section. My knees were shaking while I was giving a speech in the selections, but I believe he liked the points that I presented, for the rest I don’t know why he selected me. Anyways I remember people not being too happy with my selection :P teehee yeah I’m talking of my fellow mates, we all had the competition spirit I guess :D 

My pillar of strength, My Daddy was out of town :(  but yet I gave my 100% collecting stuff from the internet, making points , giving it a complete body etc etc. (Read: At the time I was in 9th, Internet was a LUXURY, owned by few, It was always a pain to get something from the net, print it out blah blah :P ) .

It was the day of my speech competition, I was nervous as always, but I never thought that things would turn out the way they did.

I went to the mic as my name was called out. We were not allowed to take with us any notes or cards, that is any kind of help . A few sentences and I was blank, yeah completely blank. I didn’t even remember one sentence . It was like I was in some kind of a trance, nervousness took all over me. I didn’t say a word and I came back, teary faced, and I cried like anything. It was real shitty, all my competitors and their friends passing out lame comments. I was only worried about how my teacher would react, but guess what when his lecture came, he just passed a smile, as if it was a not a big deal. It was at that moment that I realized a few lessons of my life:

1) There is always a third perspective to any situation. No matter how shitty things get, try changing the view and you will resolve your problems with so much more ease.

Now I wasn’t the only one who faired bad, there was also a girl who was senior to me, even she got nervous, but guess what, as far as I know, she has turned out to be the best orator and she has also had many literary achievements in her kitty. You getting what I mean, it’s the second lesson:

2) An event of your life, a nasty comment, bad situations …ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AND NO ONE has the capability to affect your future. The key to your future lies in your hand. You have the choice, God gives you the POWER.

I don’t remember one speech that I might have screwed up following that incident, because every time I forget my speech, I remember my “ CHANGE THE VIEW “ theory and believe me it always works.Just like in a DBMS, we can create various views for the single physical table, such views help us in faster and more effective retrieval of data.



Similarly a human mind is like a table, with infinite amount of data stored in it. We remember only the things which are in our cache memory,the things which are highest on our priority. Yet our mind has the capability to store things our mother listened to when we were inside her, well that is just an example to show the extent of stuff inside your brain. 

Now this brain has different windows that we call in our common language as PERSPECTIVES. Different humans put in similar situations react differently, the only difference being the perspective or the view or the window they use to see the situation.

Here is when the power is handed over to you, You have the power to change the view. God has gifted it to us, it's up to us if we realize this potential and use it to our best.

The right question is : " Which window will you open?" **in style of I,Robot** ;)

Now this has brought me to a very important thing that my beloved guruji :) discussed with me just yesterday. Let me tell you something about him,” HE IS JUST AMAZING “ :D yeah that’s it for a brief , I could go on and on and you’d be confused what to register in your mind and what not to :P 

So let’s get to what he said: He said,” If there is a person standing on a stage and he has in front of him a huge  audience, then all he need to have with him is Confidence, and he WILL deliver the most effective speech without making one single mistake, even if he doesn’t know anything about the topic. “

And this my friends is absolutely true, My Guruji has tried it, I have tried and I’m so sure there are so many people out there who have tried this and experienced it. The best example is a teacher at your school :P heeeheee..No I’m not saying it in a bad light.

Take me as an example, I have taught younger friends of mine, now often it happens that they bring to me chapters that I have never studied in my entire life, but the thing is that I just change the view, rather than taking it as something you don’t know and closing yourself to the endless possibilities, by saying I don’t know this subject.

A very good example to this theory is Respected Mr.John Dalton. I'm sure most of us have read about his atomic postulates, did you know he was born in a poor weaver family and he started his career as a teacher at the mere age of twelve. Do you know what he did, he simply opened himself to the endless possibilities. This helped him theorize something others merely thought as a philosophy.

For once, Open up to the universe. Everybody knows that there are invisible waves and energy floating all around us, c'mon people we’ve all read about it in our elementary physics chapters, Energy can neither be created nor be destroyed. Open up to this energy, when you open up and send to the universe a message, the universe responds. The human body starts behaving like an antennae, and that energy is directed towards you. It is what you can call DIVINE INTERVENTION .

Ok now I’m starving :P so here is the deal -

Final Word: 

Next time, you find yourself blank and stranded, with a dearth of words and a hundred eyes towards you.  
Just shake your head vigorously, 

Take a deep breath, 

Put a smile on your face, 

Open up to the universe, 

Give the bestest speech of your life,

Win accolades, 

Thank me for my amazing article ;) and 

Continue to pass the " Change the View" message to your loved ones :)

Keep Smiling
xoxo

You may NOT publish or re-print this article without the written permission of KrazzyKi (contact: ruhie.thesweetlife@gmail.com)   

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Price Tag - Jessie J Cover

10/10/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

Hey Lovelies :)
You know how much I love fooling around. I was just playing around with my karaoke and I recorded my fav song Price Tag by Jessie J. Its a cover and ofc I don't own anything.






Yesss!!! I did it again!!I forgot the tone :P and I couldn't help but go lol at the mess, but fortunately half way through I made it through and I remembered the way I was supposed to sing it :P

It's a mess, But I had loads of Fun :D
I believe everyone should try out singing to a karaoke **I need some like minded goofy people to team up with me** ;)
Visit my channel : RuhSite

Comment and Subscribe :)
Keep Smiling
xoxo

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My First Youtube Video

10/10/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

It's my First Youtube Video :)
It's a cover for Lazy Song by Bruno Mars, with lyrics by Megan Nicole. Both being my favourites. Now since it's my first time and because my mic ain't HQ, have mercy people ;)
And yes I'm sorry I have this really bad habit of forgetting lyrics :P **If you ever notice** ;)





Hope you like it. Do visit my Youtube Site: RuhSite :)

Comment and Subscribe if you like :* , even if you don't I'm juz gonna lay on my bed, coz I swear Imma gonna do nothing at all :P ;)
Keep Smiling
xoxo

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Loads of Love :)

10/10/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

 Thank you so much to everyone who participated in my first giveaway and Thank you so much for all the lovely wishes. It means so much to me. :* :)

I'll be announcing the lucky winner in a a few days. It might take a little time but I'll make it as quick as possible.Once Again I'd like to express my love and gratitude for all the lovely wishes, it was heartening to see such b'full bday wishes.

Loads of Love
Keep Smiling
xoxo

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Prayer For a Sick Friend

9/25/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

My friend has had a very bad accident. He is in a different city and all I can do is pray for him. I dedicate this Prayer to my friend with every hope that he gets well soon. Is your heart heavy over a sick friend or family member? Do you wish you could do something to help? You can lift your friend or family member to the Lord in prayer. Here is a Bible verse and a prayer to help you ask God for healing.


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Travel : Delhi Part 3

9/25/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

Delhi Visit : Day 2

7/24/2011

Good Morning Lovelies!!
I love the breakfast @ Chanchal Deluxe :) The restaurant has an amazing ambience, awesome breakfast, many new faces. Makes me wonder Delhi definitely has a lot of foreign tourists. Okz so after the Amazing buffet breakfast, we checked out of the hotel. As it was our last day in Delhi and we were planning to leave Delhi the same evening so it was a better decision to check out.

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Travel : Delhi Part 2

9/25/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

 DELHI VISIT: DAY 1

7/23/2011



Arrived at Delhi ...Staying at Chanchal Deluxe, oh so many foreigners,sight to behold :P The girls from europe are so grand ..

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Travel : Delhi Part 1

9/24/2011 Ruhie Kumar 2 Comments

Hello Lovelies :)
This is a really old post that was pending from a very long time.I actually created the whole post through mobile blogger but never published it as my pics weren't ready. So I'm doing it now,Its an awesome experience of traveling to Delhi. Hope you guys enjoy it and hope it provides you some insight and help if you ever wish to visit Delhi :) Its an amazing place.

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Review

L'oreal Paris Total Repair 5 Review

9/23/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

 Click Here to Buy Online
Name Of Product: L'oreal Paris Total Repair 5 Repairing Shampoo

Description:  5 Problems = 1 Solution

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Lux Magical Spell Body Wash Review

9/22/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

Click Here to Buy this Product
Name Of the Product: Lux Magical Spell Body Wash
Description: Lux Magical Spell - Infused with the fine scent of Black Orchid and Juniper Oil, this scent is inspired by exotic blossoms at the peak

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Matrix Biolage HydraTherapie Review

9/22/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments


Click Here to Buy Online
Name Of the Product: Matrix Biolage Hydratherapie Ultra Hydrating Shampoo

Description: Biolage Ultra Hydrating Shampoo gently cleanses and moisturizers very dry,thick hair.The nourishing formula with a botanical complex of
 algae,sage,lemongrass and wheatgerm lipids helps control frizz and unwanted

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Krazzy's Back ;)

9/22/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments



Guess who's back, back again
Krazzy's back, tell a friend
Guess who's back, guess who's back,
guess who's back, guess who's back,
guess who's back, guess who's back,
guess who's back...

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It's Exam Time!!!Again!!

8/27/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

It's exam time gain and I won't be able to blog any more  : (
 There is so much to revise and so many classes to attend.I'll miss blogging so much.

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The Soul Eaters

8/22/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments



One should always stay away from the vampires. No I’m not talking about the sexy hunks from eclipse. I’m talking about the myriad of people who surround us every day.



Now there is a difference, unlike the vampires you saw in movies. These people don’t suck your blood, instead they feed on your goodness, your happiness until you have none.


They make you from happy people to sad, aimless s*%t


Ever forgiven someone for their awful mistake, had them back in your life after their apologizing and then suddenly saw yourself losing away!!!
Now these people tend to be very clever they even act like they are innocent as angels. Now don’t go around thinking this is someone pessimistic s!*t that you shouldn’t be reading. This is real stuff, if you haven’t faced it, be prepared for what you could face!!!

And if you already have had a taste of it, congratulate yourself  cause you are not alone, THOUGH that’s how it feels!!!

So you have forgiven them and they are back into your life, everything is just picture perfect!! You thank God for giving you the patience and good – will that helped you forgive them. You really feel good, especially they make you feel like you are the best person ever!!You are more than a human being!! You are an angel , a saint. They give you all their time, love, affection.

And even when it wasn’t required, you find yourself drawn to them , believing all the things they say, because they are right!! You are a good person, a smiling, charming and lovely person!
Something  happens!! They tell you how bad they are! That you are the only reason for them to smile and survive.They want all access to your faith, your belief, they want you to believe them blindly, they won’t tell anything about themselves, but they everything that is yours!!

Your smile, your tears!! And you can’t help falling for such kind of attention because deep down everybody craves for love and attention! That’s all you do!! Be yourself! Behave like a normal human being!

But that’s where you fall!! The moment  you lose control of your feelings, the moment you let down your guard is the moment they conquer you!! 
From this moment onwards it’s a lost battle. Ever heard of a human being in a quick sand trap!! Ever felt like being in a trap of that sort!! These vampires drag you just there!!

Once you set foot on it, there’s no escaping. 



Picture this: You felt like losing yourself somewhere? Or people telling you , that you have changed? You try to find the reason, your heart knows the truth, even warns you, but your mind doesn’t heed, because your mind understands only facts!!

And the fact is there is NO proof, to the harm they do to you!

You can only sense it, and it’s not only you. But everyone who loves you senses it. Maybe they warn you, maybe they don’t, they might be listening to their heads!!

Result: You don’t do anything that you actually should have been doing!! Meanwhile they are feeding on your happiness , on your soul , while feeding your ego and your need for Love!!
You might stop to think that maybe losing oneself in the process of being loved is the way it is! The way it should be!!But be warned My dear friend. 

“Losing your soul is much worse than taking a million jabs. Because the human body is just a mirage, what is true is the soul, the energy that you carry within, you got to treasure it with your life, even if it means dying”


Why else do you think Joan of Arc chose to die?
But even to those to whom my thoughts seem crazy and delusional. Continue reading, you will figure out what I wish to convey.

Picture this:
Just when you came in terms to fact that your heart is playing games with you and that whatever you feel is stupid and delusional. That people close to you who warn you that something is wrong are just jealous of what you have!! A constant reassurance from “someone”.

You start losing yourself that moment! You have entered the quick sand and after initial attempts to escape you have decided to let go of yourself in peace, only because you have what you think a “LOVE “ of your life!!

But right at that moment, my dear friend you will notice that the warmth is fading!

And you will hear them say: “ I’m not good enough for you. This was never meant to work! ”, “ I’m feeling so guilty, I think I will have to go, away from you, forever!” 

Can you or Can you not picture yourself, I don’t know.
But Those who can, or those who have! They know the pain. Actually there is no pain because to feel the pain they just inflicted on you, you need to have a soul! Unfortunately, you realize it quite late that you have already lost it!

And you don’t feel any pain, but still it hurts you, and it hurts you more severe because  the warmth that supported you inside earlier, your energy of love has been sucked off from you, right out of you. You are left with nothing. And all you search for is them, you search for the very same vampires, who made a sh!* out of you.

Unfortunate if you don’t find them ever again, but worse if you manage to get them back in your life, because now they are your masters. They control you! They control your every move, you are nothing more than their slaves and for eternity you will do what they wish you to do!!!
If you still not clear on what the sh!* ,  you have been reading about, Go get yourself a DVD of “TRUST”. I’m sure you will understand exactly what I want to say!

And, please, NO!! I’m not only talking about online predators, or sexual predators. You get such people everywhere, usually they tend to exploit through feelings of love, because that is the weakest link to any living being. I’m sure you have heard


“ The chain is as strong as the strongest link”

They might act as angels, not do any of the sick sh!* that happened to the l’il girl in TRUST. But I want you to retrospect the feelings the Girl goes through!! Because that is exactly how you feel when such vampires attack.
Some Tips from me to all those who haven’t experienced any such person. There are certain traits of these people that could help you to recognize them and thus deal with them effectively and save yourself!!

  • ·       They are pessimistic to the core.

  • ·       They always talk about all the bad things in their lives, but they always tend to praise you for everything you have.

  • ·       Praises : That is the one weapon they use to hunt you down!! 
  • We have always been taught that we should be thankful
to people who praise us, we always see it in a good light, but that’s not always the case. WAKE UP!!! These vampires use this mentality to get you to trust them. So please next time you find someone no matter how attractive, no matter how close, praising you for even very small things, things normal people don’t usually notice. Things your parents or friends don’t notice, Beware that is a BIG signal that they are trying to hack into your system.

  • ·       Listen to your HEART!!! We have heard this a million, a zillion times, but still we tend to ignore it. If you have two feelings about a certain person, steer clear. You will be thankful, I guarantee you!!! Tell your mind to shut up if all it is doing is processing the praises and the attention bestowed upon you.


  • ·       Do Not share your life with them. Do not tell them about your life’s happiness and sorrows, that is like giving a key to your life. Be Reclusive. Do not trust blindly.


There is a very famous quote:


“You come in this world knowing nobody, but still you need somebody to TRUST!!!”
               
·       When you act reclusive, they will try even further to get to you!! You can observe the trends. More praises, more gloominess on their side, they will try to make you feel like a hero, you’ll wish to save them when actually it’s just part of their plan.

  • ·       Helping someone is a good thing, but NEVER take it on yourself to get someone out of a mess.

·    Even if you save yourself from all their sh!*, be careful because the last thing such people resort to when none of their tricks seem to be working is “EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL”. And that is because it’s the most powerful weapon.

TThey WILL say things like: “ I’m going to commit suicide”, “ I don’t have any friends or any one to love” etc etc. Many such Sh!**y lines, because they know that you have a goodness hidden inside of you. In such cases, DO NOT BE AFRAID OF RINGING THE SIREN.

o  Inform your Parents
o  Inform your teacher
o  Inform your friends also, so they know what kind of a person he/ she is!!
o  Don’t be afraid to inform the POLICE, If required. Afterall it  is a crime to commit suicide or emotionally blackmail someone.

“The basic rule is that: Don’t be afraid to save your f*&^%$@!g ass.”

NEVER THINK THAT HELPING THEM EMOTIONALLY OR PROVIDING THEM TEMPORARY RELIEF BY LENDING IN TO THEIR DEMAND WILL EVER BE OF ANY USE!!!

BECAUSE IT NEVER DOES !!!

Ok, it doesn’t end here. Even if you saved yourself, they will try to contact you. They will try to make you feel guilty.” You are not a good friend, you are not even a human being.”, “ How could you do this to me?? I wasn’t really going to commit suicide or hurt you” . Their basic aim: Make you go on a guilt trip.

“ Do Not Lend In, NEVER”

Make them realize that what you did was just a silhouette to what you can do if they ever again try to sh!* with your life.

“Nobody takes a danger that is not worth the outcome they would get out of it!!”

When they realize this, rest assured they will make a last parting remark that could hurt you if you keep yourself open. At this stage, don’t even listen to what they have to say, because that would only be sh!*!!!
And they will leave, to never return ever to your life. You can be happy and lovely as before.
They might be busy looking for their next prey, because that is their latent tendency, something that keeps them alive. We can’t do anything to change it.
All we can do is be aware of such people and circumstances and make sure that our loved ones are safe. Share what you know with your friends and people you love, because their next prey could be them as well!!
Love 


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8/21/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

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Change your Karma!!!

8/20/2011 Ruhie Kumar 2 Comments

All human beings are subject to karmic law, but we don't have to be imprisoned by it. Many people think of themselves as victims of bad karma, powerless to change it. Not true. No matter what kind of karma you've brought to this lifetime, you can change it. The literal meaning of karma -- "action" -- implies the potential for change.


So how do we change our karma? Lots of ways. Here are just a few:
  1. Read your Daily Horoscope. Horoscopes offer terrific clues for creating good karma every day. They highlight potential obstacles you'll face during the day, and give you wise advice on the best way to cope with them.

  2. Do a good deed. This is the easiest way to reverse your karma. If you put positive energy out there, you'll receive that same positive energy back. So help that elderly woman cross the street, drop some change in the charity box, buy a homeless person a cheeseburger ... give and you will receive.

  3. Listen to the universe. Are you someone who habitually gets stuck in traffic or long lines? Instead of tapping your foot and honking your horn, think about what the cosmos may be trying to tell you. (Hint: patience.) The lessons you need to learn are out there -- you just need to know how to hear the messages.

  4. Do a Tarot or I-Ching reading. These readings are a great way to take the karmic pulse of a day. Like an "early warning system," daily I-Ching readings are an excellent tool for helping you see which actions and attitudes will pave you a smoother path. There are even special Karma Tarot readings (Karmic Situation and Karmic Lesson) that will help you connect with your karma.


  5. Change your routine. If you go to the same places every day, see the same people and do the same things, and you notice you're having "bad luck," mix it up. The universe may be trying to tell you that there's either something you should stop, or that there's something else out there that you should start.

  6. Learn about your past lives. Finding out what choices you made in your past life or lives can give you insight into the patterns you see in this one. Once you figure out what lessons you still need to learn, you can change your behavior accordingly.

  7. Practice Feng Shui. The ancient art of placement and karma have a symbiotic relationship. Good karma leads to better energy, and Feng Shui releases negativity in your spaces, opening up space for positive energy to flow through your home, and also within yourself, helping your karma to improve. Learn how to put the ancient Chinese art of Feng Shui to work in you life.

  8. Learn how to forgive. Practicing forgiveness is a double whammy on the karma front. You don't just create good karma from yourself -- you also help to release the other person from negative karma.
When you understand what your karmic energies are -- what experiences or people you are attracting into your life in order to receive the lessons they offer -- you are ready to change your karma. Your thoughts and emotions, no matter how aware or unaware of them you are, affect others and are mirrored in your world. All thoughts are energy and every thought sends a vibration that affects everything in the environment, from your own physical body to every aspect of the external world ... all the people, animals, plants and the cosmos itself.

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Shelf Life Of Cosmetics

8/20/2011 Ruhie Kumar 1 Comments


The first rule to remember is OLD IS NOT GOLD. Make up has a shelf life. It gets contaminated easily.

          If you leave anything unused for months, it gets discolored or spoiled. If make up is used on moist skin, then closed up again, bacteria could breed in it. The next time you use it, the germs are transferred to your face.

    

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Love @ First sight: Inertia Of Love!! ( IOL )

8/17/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

I miss him like anything!!!!S@!T!!!!!!!
Hmmphh
Before you know it, you are already missing a greater part of yourself and your life through him!
Now this is not a one-person's-story. It happens wtih everyone, thousands of young hearts, never knowing what real love is, fall for something that changes their perspective towards what is real - The True Love!!

I'm not here to tell you what it is, for the very simple reason that I'm not eligible to do so! Honestly I do think that Love is Universal. It can range from what you feel for your cuddly teddy bear to what a patriot would feel for his/her country! As much as it could be a person from your family, someone special, we also love our favourite blanky, don't we??



 A sense of connection that binds us. Would you be afraid to lose that thread of warmth ? Because afterall love is all about the warmth we receive from some people in this otherwise cold world.


You might remember how you could genuinely smile when with him and the same old warmth could turn into your biggest fear, a setback to your achieving what otherwise you could achieve! Let me be more decipherable : You had an amazing relation with someone, he/ she was a huge part of your life, they helped change your life into something better! But unfortunately, something went wrong could be a break up , could be losing someone forever, the pain is almost the same. There is a very famous saying:
"Once in Love, you can never be the same again. It changes the very core of your soul."
So what happens when you face such a huge loss ( only a person who has actually been through can tell about the pain we're talking about) . The question is:

Can you ever fall in love again?
Is it ever the same?
Haven't you ever felt that absolutely no one could keep you that happy?
That you would give the world to be back in those times?



The thing is we as human beings hate changes. We often experience what may be called the Inertia Of Love. The relation is over, everyone seems to have moved on! But somehow you are in a totally different world, we tend to distance ourself from everyone, our friends, colleagues, even our parents and siblings. Why is it that we tend to remain in that state of Love, even after everything has finished!! Even when we know that what happened was bound to happen, that we could do nothing to change it, and even worse there is nothing is future we could do to change it!!!

Honestly speaking Inertia of Love s*^&k# , and we know it does!!!! But we tend to stick to it!!
Is it because of Hope? Can "Hope" turn to be our enemy, that's what it appears.


We HOPE they will be back.
We HOPE of being in the same state of love, happiness and belonging-ness we experienced with them.

"I'm not begging you to love me.
I'm not really even asking you.
But, Isn't it alright
If I cherish that hope in my heart?
If I just dream of holding your hand.
It will hurt me- not you.
I will try to keep my eyes from shining
When they see you,
And I promise
I will try not to smile a special smile
When you say hello,
but, please Don't ask me
Not to love you... "
We relive each moment we spent with them in our hearts, our soul, in our head. When listening to a song, when going to an old hangout, we can feel the warmth of those moments rush through our veins and we realize we can't love anyone else.

But this is where it takes an ugly face :
"We can't love anymore!!!"
Have you ever heard yourself saying that to someone or even yourself??
I can't love anyone anymore, I've had enough of love!!!


I'm sure all of you who have read or watched the following will get a clearer picture of what "IOL" is all about.

Movies:
  • P.S I Love You
  • My Sassy Girl <>
Books:

  • Christmas Eve at Friday Harbor
  • The Witch Of Portobello
Can you remember any such movies or novels that represent IOL?

P.S.: I know it's hard to smile after reading such a heavy blog :P
but still
Keep Smiling
Coz A Smile Is Allll You Need  ^_^





XoXo,
Keiko


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Motivated to Love!:The beautiful Story ^_^

8/16/2011 Ruhie Kumar 0 Comments

High in the mountains was a monastery that had once been known throughout the world. Its monks were pious, its students were enthusiastic. The chants from the monastery's chapel deeply touched the hearts of people who came there to pray and meditate.
    

                  But, something had changed. Fewer and fewer young men came to study there; fewer and fewer people came for spiritual nourishment. The monks who remained became sad and disheartened.

                  Deeply worried, the abbot of the monastery went off in search of an answer. Why had this monastery fallen on such hard times?

                  The abbot came to a guru, and he asked the master, "Is it beacuse of some sin of ours that the monastery is no longer full of vitality?"

                  "Yes," replied the master, "it is the sin of ignorance."
                  "The sin of ignorance?" questioned the abbot. "Of what are we ignorant?"
       
                 The guru looked at the abbot for a long, long time, and then he said, “One of you is the messiah in disguise. But ,you are all ignorant of this.”Then, the guru closed his eyes, and he was silent.
                “The messiah?” thought the abbot. “The messiah is one of us? Who could it be? Could it be Brother Cook?  Could it be Brother Treasurer? Could it be Brother Bell-Ringer? Could it be Brother Vegetable Grower?
                “Which one? Which one?  Every one of us has faults, failings, human defects. Isn’t the messiah supposed to be perfect? But, then, perhaps these faults and failings are part of his disguise. Which one? Which one? “
                When the abbot returned to the monastery, he gathered all the monks together and told them what the guru had said.
                “One of us? The messiah? Impossible!”
                But the master had spoken, and the master was never wrong.
                “One of us? The messiah ? Incredible! But, it must be so. Which one?  Which one? That brother over there? That one? That one?
                Whichever one of the monks was the messiah, he was, surely, in disguise.
                Not knowing who amongst them was the messiah, all the monks began treating each other with new respect. “ You never know,” they thought, “he might be the one, so I had better deal with him kindly.”
                It was not long before the monastery was filled with new found joy. Soon, new students came to learn, and people came from far and wide to be inspired by  the chants of the kind, smiling monks.
                For once again, the monastery was filled with the spirit of love.
  Author Unknown
But Greatly Appreciated!

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